Projectors have been and always will be more than simply a sexual/intimate partner in relationships, even if the relationship was predicated on romanticism, sex, or even just a "friendship".
This is tough for most not-self generator men to swallow when they find out they are in a relationship with a projector woman. The not-self generator man feels inferior in awareness, instead of realizing what an incredible opportunity he has to increase his own awareness with her guidance.
And it's equally tough for a generator woman with a projector man to shatter her modern feminism programming to realize that her projector partner is not a soulless patriarch.
Projectors are natural guides.
The not-self will try by any means to avoid itself.
A guide is here to wake you up, not just to sleep with you, fuck and have some babies, create a penta, super-slave for another man's agenda, and die unfulfilled.
The notself calls this phenomena "building an empire".
What it really is about is being awake and aware.
-Micah Jacobs
And now, Ra Uru Hu on Projector Responsibility in Relation to Generators:
"So, the moment you have a relationship where you have a Projector and a Generator, we're going to be able to look in this relationship at the places of conflict and difficulty. And when you go to that place and you show them that this is the helplessness of the mechanics—here you are, this is a place where you meet where there is a problem and you're dealing with this problem in your lives—that in order to be able to return them to themselves is a very different process.
The Generator partner has to be encouraged to enter into their experiment of responding. But the Projector needs to be encouraged to study their partner.
In other words, the Projector has to take on an additional responsibility in that sense.
In other words, they have to figure out why this was being demonstrated. When the Projector and a Generator come to a reading and there it's all laid out, the Projector needs to understand how the analyst saw that. The moment that the Projector can get to that place, they can begin to truly be transformed.
It's fascinating to watch them. The most interesting thing about a Projector is that as the Projector is focused on the other, they are actually changing. I've had this experience many times now with Projectors in my life that they don't appear to be paying any attention to their own process, they're very much absorbed, they can get very quickly addicted to staring at others through this matrix but that very process of analyzing the others transforms them." - Ra Uru Hu
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